The other day this woman said that while she personally would not ever have an abortion she believes it should remain legal. But the catch was she believes it should remain legal for the women who have been raped, or the mother's life is in danger. Does it make it any less a baby because of the circumstances?
Um...OK, so while I absolutely feel that it's wrong to kill your unborn child due to its father's actions (do you kill your child because his father holds up a bank?) why should abortion remain legal for any other reason? If abortion were made illegal excluding hard cases it'd be like 97 babies out of 100 would get life. And that rape victim could still get her abortion (albeit however wrong that is).
Rape is a traumatic event in one's life. It is awful, horrible...unimaginable. But surely one cannot honestly believe killing the baby will end the mother's suffering. If only it adds to it. Two wrongs do not make a right.
I'm not saying she even has to keep the baby, but to kill it over what the man did is not seeking justice or healing whatsoever.
This woman would not get an abortion but yet she feels it should remain a legal right. I would not own a slave to work for me, keep me in my home, buy my clothes, etc, etc, but I think it should become legal so those who want that can have that choice. No, that's ridiculous.
What's wrong is wrong. Just because you feel animal abuse is wrong, who's to say your neighbor shouldn't be allowed to kick his dog around?
I want to see abortion become illegal. But if to see that become true we had to keep it legal for the hard cases, I'd take that compromise. It would mean that many more thousands of babies would see the light of day. And hopefully even the rape victims would get the love and support they need to make the right choice.
Sunday, August 21, 2011
Monday, July 4, 2011
what about partial-birth abortion?
When I first heard about partial-birth abortion I was absolutely disgusted. And I couldn't believe it was allowed to happen.
Pro-choicers often claim partial-birth abortion is done to save the mother's life. Are you actually serious?! They are delivering all but the head of the baby, and then with a poweful vacuum suck out the baby's brains, collasping the skull.
That's not considered murder because the baby has yet to draw in a breath of air. Really? I was under the impression a heartbeat and brain waves (which the baby has) is, by medical standards, alive.
It has also been noted by the way, that there is no medical reason for a partial-birth abortion. When you're ok to survive the baby being pulled through the birth canal there is no reason to kill your baby. If the mother can survive that, she can survive a live birth.
It was said by pro-choicers a mother wants her baby when they perform a partial-birth abortion but she can't keep it because her life is in danger. But she can survive the almost delivery? Yeah...
Keep in mind when a partial-birth abortion is done, the baby is at least five months along and with today's technology, most likely has a fighting chance in the NICU. There is no reason to have the baby's skull crushed.
Partial-birth abortion is horrible...it is beyond disgusting. How does a human deliver a little baby and do that? I can't understand that...It's awful.
Pro-choicers often claim partial-birth abortion is done to save the mother's life. Are you actually serious?! They are delivering all but the head of the baby, and then with a poweful vacuum suck out the baby's brains, collasping the skull.
That's not considered murder because the baby has yet to draw in a breath of air. Really? I was under the impression a heartbeat and brain waves (which the baby has) is, by medical standards, alive.
It has also been noted by the way, that there is no medical reason for a partial-birth abortion. When you're ok to survive the baby being pulled through the birth canal there is no reason to kill your baby. If the mother can survive that, she can survive a live birth.
It was said by pro-choicers a mother wants her baby when they perform a partial-birth abortion but she can't keep it because her life is in danger. But she can survive the almost delivery? Yeah...
Keep in mind when a partial-birth abortion is done, the baby is at least five months along and with today's technology, most likely has a fighting chance in the NICU. There is no reason to have the baby's skull crushed.
Partial-birth abortion is horrible...it is beyond disgusting. How does a human deliver a little baby and do that? I can't understand that...It's awful.
Saturday, July 2, 2011
Defund Planned Parenthood
I believe I said this before but I'm saying it again. Every life saved from abortion is a win for the pro-life side.
The other day a girl was saying who cares five states have defunded Planned Parenthood. She went on to say that we might as well not defund them because the other states still fund them; other countries perform abortions as well.
That is true, yes. But every state to defund Planned Parenthood is a win; a victory! I mean, think about it. Should we stop trying to feed the starving children? Absolutely not! Every child that gets fed is a victory! A war isn't won with a single battle. It takes time to see things through to the end.
Someone else also said that because of the "good" Planned Parenthood does (pregnancy tests, and other women's health care) we shouldn't defund them. There are literally hundreds of other clinics that do all the exact same things, only without performing abortions. If Planned Parenthood isn't about abortions, rather women as they claim they shouldn't even be crying over this. Fighting it so hard. They can still help women. But they want that money provided from abortion.
And abortion isn't even "helping" women. It hurts them. It may seem like help at the time, but then or later, it hurts. Not only does it hurt the woman, it hurts the father...It hurts the people around her.
Keep defunding Planned Parenthood- and Obama, back off. His administration is fighting Indiana. It's a state's right to defund them. He's trying to take away another freedom of the state; of the people. They voted to defund and he's trying to change it. Wow. I'm disgusted.
The other day a girl was saying who cares five states have defunded Planned Parenthood. She went on to say that we might as well not defund them because the other states still fund them; other countries perform abortions as well.
That is true, yes. But every state to defund Planned Parenthood is a win; a victory! I mean, think about it. Should we stop trying to feed the starving children? Absolutely not! Every child that gets fed is a victory! A war isn't won with a single battle. It takes time to see things through to the end.
Someone else also said that because of the "good" Planned Parenthood does (pregnancy tests, and other women's health care) we shouldn't defund them. There are literally hundreds of other clinics that do all the exact same things, only without performing abortions. If Planned Parenthood isn't about abortions, rather women as they claim they shouldn't even be crying over this. Fighting it so hard. They can still help women. But they want that money provided from abortion.
And abortion isn't even "helping" women. It hurts them. It may seem like help at the time, but then or later, it hurts. Not only does it hurt the woman, it hurts the father...It hurts the people around her.
Keep defunding Planned Parenthood- and Obama, back off. His administration is fighting Indiana. It's a state's right to defund them. He's trying to take away another freedom of the state; of the people. They voted to defund and he's trying to change it. Wow. I'm disgusted.
Thursday, June 16, 2011
Soo
I have decided to return this blog back to its original roots. Abortion. I don't know how often I'll post a blog, but that's what this will go back. I have another blog I just started for other purposes. wisedomspeaks.wordpress.com and there's the link for it you'd like to visit.
It feels weird posting about other stuff on here when it's suppose to be a prolife blog so yup, it's going back to that.
It feels weird posting about other stuff on here when it's suppose to be a prolife blog so yup, it's going back to that.
Tuesday, June 14, 2011
is it worth it?
So this is kind of a personal topic and all, but it has been on my mind lately. I'm not ashamed of the fact that I am a virgin or even a 'good' girl but sometimes people make me feel like it's something wrong. That it's wrong to be a 'good' girl and I don't know why I let them make me feel that way.
I dislike how if I don't drink they try to pressure me into drinking. Why is that? I'm not pressuring them not to drink. I'm not telling them not to- I just respectfully decline the pro-offered alcoholic drink. Why don't they respect my decision not to drink? I mean, first off, I am underage and I do not believe that minors should be drinking so why would I? Secondly, I have absolutely no desire to drink Whatsoever. Is that odd? Because people make it seem like that's odd...
The other thing is, I am virgin- as I stated above- and I have never even kissed a guy. I know, wow! lol. Now, please, don't go and think that nobody's ever tried to kiss me. Haha. Guys have, I've pulled away. Why, you may ask? Because I guess I still hold onto my young girl's fantasty of waiting for my wedding to kiss for the first time. Actually, I'm not gonna lie, I haven't found a guy I wanna kiss. I hold onto the belief that kissing is quite special; that each kiss you give is givng away a part of yourself. I don't want to regret my first kiss- and if I were to just kiss any guy that I feel an attraction to, I would regret it. I know myself, and I know I would.
Just recently someone asked me if I'm a virgin, and I said yes. He asked if it's because I haven't found the right guy. How to explain it to have him understand? I wasn't sure. Nobody nowadays seem to understand or grasp the concept of waiting for marriage. I replied with "I'm waiting for marriage...so I guess you could say it's because I haven't found the right guy." I mean, that's true. I haven't found the right guy, the one I'm going to marry. But even when I do find that guy, he's not getting in my pants til our wedding night.
If I were to give away my virginity before marriage- just like if I were to give away my first kiss- I would regret it. In fact, I would probably hate myself. I want to live a full, fun life. But I don't want to look back and see regrets tainting it.
Of course, others believe once you find "the one" it's ok to have sex with him; after all you're going to get married. I don't buy into that. I mean, if you're going to marry him anyway, why not just wait a little longer? They say if you love him it's ok to have sex. Again, I don't buy that. Because nowadays the word love is so misused, so more than likely the love you two feel is just "I love you right now but I probably won't a little later down the road." There is no commitment with that love.
And that's about it, I guess. But if you're like me, the good girl, keep at it. Don't let others make you feel bad for being "good". If you don't wanna drink, it's ok. Don't wanna have sex, it's ok. Don't wanna smoke? Again, it's ok. Don't give in because people think you're weird. You're unique, and don't let anyone make you feel guilty for it.
I dislike how if I don't drink they try to pressure me into drinking. Why is that? I'm not pressuring them not to drink. I'm not telling them not to- I just respectfully decline the pro-offered alcoholic drink. Why don't they respect my decision not to drink? I mean, first off, I am underage and I do not believe that minors should be drinking so why would I? Secondly, I have absolutely no desire to drink Whatsoever. Is that odd? Because people make it seem like that's odd...
The other thing is, I am virgin- as I stated above- and I have never even kissed a guy. I know, wow! lol. Now, please, don't go and think that nobody's ever tried to kiss me. Haha. Guys have, I've pulled away. Why, you may ask? Because I guess I still hold onto my young girl's fantasty of waiting for my wedding to kiss for the first time. Actually, I'm not gonna lie, I haven't found a guy I wanna kiss. I hold onto the belief that kissing is quite special; that each kiss you give is givng away a part of yourself. I don't want to regret my first kiss- and if I were to just kiss any guy that I feel an attraction to, I would regret it. I know myself, and I know I would.
Just recently someone asked me if I'm a virgin, and I said yes. He asked if it's because I haven't found the right guy. How to explain it to have him understand? I wasn't sure. Nobody nowadays seem to understand or grasp the concept of waiting for marriage. I replied with "I'm waiting for marriage...so I guess you could say it's because I haven't found the right guy." I mean, that's true. I haven't found the right guy, the one I'm going to marry. But even when I do find that guy, he's not getting in my pants til our wedding night.
If I were to give away my virginity before marriage- just like if I were to give away my first kiss- I would regret it. In fact, I would probably hate myself. I want to live a full, fun life. But I don't want to look back and see regrets tainting it.
Of course, others believe once you find "the one" it's ok to have sex with him; after all you're going to get married. I don't buy into that. I mean, if you're going to marry him anyway, why not just wait a little longer? They say if you love him it's ok to have sex. Again, I don't buy that. Because nowadays the word love is so misused, so more than likely the love you two feel is just "I love you right now but I probably won't a little later down the road." There is no commitment with that love.
And that's about it, I guess. But if you're like me, the good girl, keep at it. Don't let others make you feel bad for being "good". If you don't wanna drink, it's ok. Don't wanna have sex, it's ok. Don't wanna smoke? Again, it's ok. Don't give in because people think you're weird. You're unique, and don't let anyone make you feel guilty for it.
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